Differences in Males

I am not going to prove myself. So, what do you want to do, its your choice. I don't want to prove myself. It would cause ego problem in me and you. I explained my objective before I tried to justify her paranoia.

I guess I am loyal and will be so. IF I COULD NOT I WILL TRY TO LEARN. I MAY NEED HELP TO BE LOYAL AND I EXPECT THE SAME TOO FROM MY PARTNER.

It is very nice to know that you are studious, and I am no doubt the same, you may know latter :).

I like songs, nepali, hindi, english and some arabian songs. I like narayan gopal, arun thapa, aruna lama, karna das, deep shrestha etc not the modern nepali songs though, except 1974 AD.

It is great to know that you belong to bloodline of Laxmi prasad devkota. I really appreciate him very much. His sensitivity towards human being. I hope to find some qualities in you too.

Now the real topic: about maleness!

Men are same: it was her sarcasm, regarding my choices.

Of course the biology is same. They are living creature as other being, like you for example. They are sexually different. Their psychology is different than female and they vary from one to another as well, if you could understand the psychology. Besides, the sexual urge is natural instinct so they (male) are attracted to many woman for one reason or the other. It is truth.

But whenever a man approaches a woman it doesn't mean he has hidden agenda to get involve in physical level only. To understand the man it is equally important to know him and understand him. His development, education, social background, friends and all. Besides, man never thinks sex or a thing like that is the only thing he wants in life. He too is equally sensitive for his social needs, a secure life with intelligent and caring and self sustained partner (wife I mean), secure job, respect, autonomy and some authority. However, it differs how much value a man gives to these above mentioned factors.

If a man is inclined to a woman, many of the people may interpret in a wrong way (I don't think there is any wrong way though). They (interpreter) do not know the whole relationship dynamics and the psychology behind the approach of the man for that particular relationship. It should not be judge in one frame only. Man are human too. They too feel pain. They too have heart to sustain betrayals. They too have sensitivity to feel being cared. They are not a statue, not to appreciate the beauty of life. They too can feel the pain in woman, love of woman. They too know how to behave, to be loyal, to care. (just a feeling).

Now, satisfaction:
I just want to say a single thing: it depends upon the man. Just like not every fingers in your hand are same, like every day is different , every man is different. so their degree of satisfaction for the same thing is different. I guess I tried as much as I can to make things clear. Perception is important.

'I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul' from 16th century poem, Invictus'. We can change our personality, we can change our fate too. We must have courage to face the mistrust, betrayals and downs, and sail our boat to our dreams. We are actually what we think. We see things accordingly. If you want to see good you will see the good, if you expect bad, bad happens. That is what it is written here and there....think positive and be positive, and be optimistic.....live in present...but see tomorrow.. a day with sunlight but not the night without moon!